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I'm Not Sure Heroic Buddy and I Are the Best Fit, What Do You Recommend?
I'm Not Sure Heroic Buddy and I Are the Best Fit, What Do You Recommend?

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Written by Calman Hilkert
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You may not be the best fit, AND, maybe there's a beautiful relationship that can be co-created.

In any interaction with your Heroic Buddy we recommend taking a breath, channeling your signature strengths, and showing up at your best.

If you feel the fit may not be right, we recommend clearly communicating how you're looking to engage in this relationship and how you're looking to grow in the program. We encourage you to ask your Heroic Buddy to share the same. If after having that conversation you both feel the fit isn't right, let us know.

As with any relationship, let's try to co-create something awesome within the constraints of reality. Sometimes the timing will be a challenge, sometimes our perspectives will vary drastically, and in those differences two people can grow both individually and as Heroic Buddies.

In the past there have been Heroic Buddies who almost gave up on each other, came together, and created a beautiful relationship. And, sometimes, for one reason or another, it just isn't the right fit.

Take extreme ownership, communicate clearly, and know we're here to support and re-pair each of you if that ends up being best.

We have heard from other coaches that an open honest conversation really helps on creating that reconnection, here are some things you can consider:

  1. Share what you have enjoyed about your connection (hopefully there's at least one thing).

  2. Let your Heroic Buddy know exactly what you feel would be most supportive of you at this time. (And how you'd like to support a Heroic Buddy.)

  3. And then ask if they would like to be in that type of Heroic Buddy relationship or if it'd be best to re-match. (And offer that there's of course no pressure, just wanted to check in.)

If at the end you just can't make a connection please reach out to us at support@heroic.us and we'll pair you up with someone else.

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