Emotions after surgery
It is normal to feel stressed after being in the hospital. Proper preoperative education can make you more optimistic and anticipate fewer problems.
Below are some of the reasons why you may feel emotional after surgery:
Inability or difficulty to do some of the activities you enjoy
Pain and discomfort while recovering
Reactions to the anaesthesia or medications post surgery
Physical or emotional stress
Depression not treated prior to surgery
Fear of the unknown in terms of recovery
Major life changes like these, even when they are not permanent, can make you feel sad or worried.
It is normal to feel frustrated or down about the short-term changes to the use of your arm and day-to-day activities during your recovery. If your negative feelings are severe, or if you find you don’t adjust after a week or two, let your doctor know.
It takes time to adjust after surgery especially if you have had your dominant hand operated on, but many people find they can regain their emotional balance. This isn’t true for everyone, however. Sadness or anxiety might not be your main symptom, so depression might be hard to spot. This is why it’s so important to talk to your doctor about how you’re feeling. These feelings after surgery are common, and if you’ve started to feel depressed or very anxious, your doctor can help.
If you have been feeling sad or anxious since your surgery, here are the warning signs to look out for:
Noticeable changes in mood, energy level, or appetite
Having trouble feeling positive emotions
Problems sleeping or sleeping too much
Problems with concentrating, feeling restless, or on edge
Increased worry or feeling stressed
Feeling more angry, irritable, or aggressive than normal
A need for alcohol or drugs
Sadness or hopelessness
Suicidal thoughts
Obsessive thinking or compulsive behaviour
Thoughts or behaviours that interfere with work, family, or social life
Unusual thinking or behaviours that concern other people
Some simple self-help measures can help minimise the emotions such as sleeping well, eating healthy, taking up a new hobby such as reading or taking regular walks. Do not be afraid to ask for help from relatives or friends who may be able to keep you company.
Regular exercise can also help release some feel good hormones which can curb depression. It can also help with self confidence and self esteem
References:
National Institutes of Health, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2018, Older Adults and Mental Health, viewed 29 September 2022
Versus arthritis, 2019, Arthritis and Depression: what you can do about it, viewed 29 September 2022
Mitchell M (2012) Anxiety management in minimal stay surgery: Nursing times 108(48) pg. 15-16
NHS (2022) NHS talking therapies. Accessed 28 August 2022