While this moment is special, it doesn't hurt to keep it on the shorter side. Most first dance songs are in the 3-4 minute range. Some couples who choose a song that is over 4 minutes long will ask the DJ to fade the song out. Select a type of music or song you both love and one that keeps an easy beat, especially if you’re beginning dancers. Some couples have the first dance song picked out before they even get engaged while others may need help picking out that special first dance. Click here to check out a list of songs for some inspiration.