We do not allow advice-giving as most peers are not trained professionals. In a peer support session, avoiding giving advice is essential to maintain the integrity and effectiveness of the support group. We encourage members to come to their own conclusions about what is right for them, their families, and their lives.This fosters a non-judgmental and empowering atmosphere where participants feel heard, understood, and respected.
Furthermore, sharing advice can inadvertently lead to assumptions or overlook critical aspects of someone's experience, which might not align with their situation. The absence of advice-giving allows for more open and authentic exchanges, promoting active listening and deep connections between peers.
What sharing your experience looks like:
In my experience I…
A coping strategy that is really helpful for me is…
What advice-giving looks like:
You should do…
If I were you I would…
Instead of offering advice, please share your own experiences, coping strategies, and insights. This sharing of personal journeys allows participants to draw parallels, gain new perspectives, and discover potential options for addressing their challenges, no advice necessary.