Nudges are messages the AI sends on its own when a fan stops replying. They're set up per model, in Models → your model → Follow-up Settings tab.
The three types of nudges
Nudge after the welcome message: for fans who never replied to the model's first message. The first nudge goes out after the delay you set; the next ones are counted from the previous nudge.
Nudges when a fan stops replying: the fan was taking part in the conversation, then went quiet. The first nudge goes out after the delay you set, counted from the last message left unanswered; the next ones follow on the same way.
On-login nudges: the AI watches for the fan to come back online and nudges them the moment they reconnect, provided they haven't replied within the delay you set. This type requires online presence, available on Reveal (not on MYM or OnlyFans).
Each rule has its own delay, adjustable in hours and minutes (or "immediately"). You can set up up to 3 nudges per type. Below each rule, the interface recaps the exact moment it will go out.
The built-in guardrails
A reply from the fan resets everything: as soon as they reply, the nudge series stops and the counters start over from zero.
No repetition: the AI varies its angles (picking the thread back up, sharing a moment, teasing, asking a question about the fan) and won't resend a nudge it has already used, or a variant of it. It never asks "are you there?" twice.
The right moment: before each nudge, the AI checks that it makes sense. If the fan said "good night", "I'm in a meeting" or "see you tomorrow", it waits for a better moment instead of sending anyway.
The conversation's register is respected: a nudge picks the conversation back up where it left off, in the same tone. No "so, how's your Monday?" in the middle of an intimate exchange.
Schedule respected: no nudge goes out outside the model's activity schedule.
Setup tip
A classic pattern for "when a fan stops replying": a first nudge after a few hours, a second one the next day, a third one a few days later. Avoid stringing together delays that are too short: three spaced-out nudges are better than three nudges in the same evening.