Alternatives to XSiteAbility
In the rapidly evolving landscape of adult site builders, finding the right fit for your business is critical. At mymember.site, we pride ourselves on our state-of-the-art features and usability. We are constantly getting better. But how does our platform measure up against XSiteAbility?
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🎯 Services & policy benefits
mymember.site offers unbeatable value with our free installation and a $0 minimum monthly fee. We proudly offer price matching, ensuring you get the best deal, and with no binding contracts, you have complete flexibility and peace of mind.
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Payout split | 80-95% After a bank fee of 10% is subtracted. | 60-80% After a bank fee of 10% is subtracted. |
No contracts Leave anytime if you are unsatisfied | ✅ | ✅ |
Payout minimum amount | $5 | No minimum payout just for US clients |
Withdraw your funds whenever you want, even daily! | Anytime | Every 4 weeks |
We offer many different payout options, including direct deposit, SEPA, crypto and Venmo. | ✅ | ❓ |
You make 25% of what we make on each site that you refer, up to a maximum of $1,000 USD per month, for the lifetime of that site. | ✅ 25% for lifetime, and up to 40% with Ambassador program | ✅ |
Actively managed community feedback system We LOVE feedback, and we make it easy for you to provide. | ✅ | ❓ |
Full control of your site | ✅ | ✅ |
No coding knowledge needed | ✅ | ✅ |
Everyone welcome? (No referral or invitation required) | ✅ | ❌ |
Fully integrated age verification customized and compliant by region | ✅ | ❌ |
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Fully mobile friendly Dashboard and site Access the FULL dashboard on desktop or mobile. | ✅ | ✅ |
Detailed Help Center We have an extensive Help Center where you can find helpful articles covering all sorts of topics. | ✅ | ❓ |
BEST in-house support in the industry Our in-house support team prides itself on friendly and fast support. | ✅ | ❌ |
☁️ Hosting & Security
mymember.site's robust adult site content management system (CMS) comes with world-class hosting, performance and security. We take care of everything, and our dedicated in-house dev ops team stands behind our commitment, guaranteeing seamless service and ensuring you enjoy top-tier benefits without any added stress or cost.
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Videos use delivery encryption to protect your content from theft and man-in-the-middle attacks. | ✅ | ❓ |
No installation scripts required There are no complicated scripts to install. | ✅ | ✅ |
Our fully managed hosting service takes the hassle out of website upkeep, ensuring optimal performance and security. | ✅ | ✅ |
Auto-scaling to meet spikes in demand Whether you're expecting 50 visitors or 500,000, our system's auto-scaling ensures seamless performance to handle any level of demand. | ✅ | ❓ |
Our state-of-the-art cloud-based infrastructure offers unparalleled reliability and speed, powering your site with the latest technology. | ✅ | ❓ |
Servers on all major continents | ✅ | ❌ |
CDN included To ensure content is delivered to end users with minimal latency, our infrastructure utilizes a global network of 550+ Points of Presence and 13 regional edge caches spread across 100+ cities in 50 countries. | ✅ | ❓ |
Our AI system automatically blocks incoming traffic, which appears to be malicious. | ✅ | ❓ |
SSL is included with your site, increasing security and boosting user trust. | ✅ | ❓ |
Enhance the security of your account by adding two factor authentication to your account. | ✅ | ❓ |
WatermarkingYour videos are watermarked with your site name when uploaded. Watermarks are optional, however, and can be turned off if you don't want them. Optionally show members' names as watermarks on the content that they view for further anti-theft measures. | ✅ | ✅ |
❤️ Engagement
mymember.site's member engagement features are designed to amplify user interactions for your adult website business. You get capabilities ranging from group and private chats to intuitive comment management and monetization options. Our adult site CMS seamlessly integrates voice messages, chat unlocks, and content sharing directly from your media vault or library.
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Group & private chatsOffer group chats, private chats, both, or no chats at all. Reply to, copy and delete comments Mute members Floating chat AND chat center Voice and image attachments from members Reply to chats in just two clicks with saved replies. Attach locked content and include personalization variables. | ✅ | ❓ |
Pay-per-messageOffer free private messaging or charge a per-message fee.
Complimentary text messages Offer a limited number of complimentary private messages, customizable per membership. Give them once, or every 30 days. | ✅ | ❓ |
Chat unlocksCharge an "unlock" fee for private chat attachments, or send for free. And don't worry, our system will let you know if you are about to re-send a video that someone has already paid for.
Chat unlock stats See what content from your Library and Vault has already been sent and unlocked through private chats.
Send from vault or media library Send content from your media vault, or share content from your video library. | ✅ | ❓ |
Mass messagesReach not only those on your mailing list, but members at different parts of the subscription lifecycle. Specify whether a mass message is sent to look exactly like a personal, private message, or a mass message.
Recipient filtering Send your mass messages out to only those who should be seeing them. Select specific memberships, membership statuses (active, canceled, expired), those with accounts, but have never joined, or just those on your mailing list. Attach content from your vault or library that can be unlocked for a fee by message recipients.
Personalized messages using variables Personalize your mass messages by using variables like member username. See how emails look in your inbox by sending yourself a preview test message. Want to have a copy? No problem, just toggle on the BCC before sending your mass message. Our system will automatically choose the optimal delivery method and timing to ensure maximum delivery. Messages will be first sent via private message and will then fall back to email if necessary. See total number of recipients, email opens and chat opens. Resend mass messages and social posts for content already published to your library (different from new published content auto-posts). | ✅ | ✅ |
Mailing list management | ✅ | ✅ |
TranslationsYour site is automatically translated for your members in their selected language, including real-time translations in the chat.
On-the-fly translations in live chat | ✅ | ❌ |
Use offline mode to disable the green dot that appears to your members when you are online. | ✅ | ❌ |
LivestreamIn addition to streaming from your browser (Chrome, Safari, Firefox, etc.), you can use third party software to stream to your site. Set access by membership and viewer type. Offer members, or the general public free or paid access. Options can be changed on-the-fly. Set chat permissions based on membership type. Specify who can read and message. Options can be changed on-the-fly. Record livestreams and include them on your site on a "Recorded livestreams" page. Set access permissions like you do with regular videos. Download your original recorded livestream to make edits and replace. When your stream is live, visitors to your site will see a popup in the bottom left corner announcing your stream. Visitors will see a slightly different version depending on their access. Set and track tip goals, and individual tip actions and amounts. Track who's watching and where they're visiting from. Tip actions display buttons over your stream that prompt users to tip certain amounts for that particular action. You can show/hide tip actions during the livestream. Tip actions can be set to fade over time, if there are no tips for that action. You can set an optional tip action goal if you would like to set a price that would require multiple tips to achieve. For example, you could set a tip action goal of 200 USD which would require, for example, 8 tips 25 USD to achieve. Once you've started your stream, you'll see a stats section beneath the video player. You can see who's watching your stream, broken down by membership and access settings. You can also see detailed tip statistics, including information on each tip action. | ✅ | ❌ |
Content engagementContent likes Each piece of content includes a like button that members can click. Like counts are included in your dashboard. Members can comment on each piece of content, and reply to, and like the comments of others. This helps drive engagement between you and your members, and between members themselves. | ✅ | ❓ |
PollsRun polls to survey your members. Filter by membership and member tag. | ✅ | ❌ |
🤖 Automation
We love automation! mymember.site has a full suite of automation tools including scheduling options, and fully customizable outgoing event-based private and mass messages, and auto posts (X and Blueksy).
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Customizable event-based messagesCustomize and schedule event-based messages, private message/email announcements, and auto posts (X and Blueksy). Plan content releases, mass messages, promotions, and store item releases effortlessly, ensuring timely and consistent communication with your members.
Customize the default auto-announcement that is sent when you publish new content. Auto-announcements can also be turned off. Customize post-purchase auto messages by store category. With this feature, you can include information and instructions that are specific to the exact item that was purchased. | ✅ | ✅ |
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Content release scheduling Content can be published now, or scheduled and auto-released at a future time and date. Schedule a future-dated livestream and show a popup announcement on your site. Members have the option to add scheduled livestream to their calendar. Flexibility plan your mass messages to members in advance, ensuring timely and consistent communication. Set your desired date and time, and we'll automatically send your messages, so you can focus on other important tasks. Schedule promotions to start at a future date and run for a set period of time. You can schedule a publication date for store items if you're uncertain about posting immediately. This allows for any adjustments before the item goes live in the store. | ✅ | ✅ |
Ensure your scheduled content doesn't overwhelm your libraries by limiting published content to only what's being released soon. | ✅ | ✅ |
Specify how long you want content to appear on your site. | ✅ | ❓ |
🎞️ Content management
mymember.site offers industry-leading adult content management tools for the professional studio, or the creator just getting started.
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Virtual Reality Our VR built-in web player supports up to 8K resolution and 360°. | ✅ | ❌ | |
4K Our 4K streaming feature delivers crystal-clear, ultra-high-definition video quality, ensuring an immersive viewing experience. | ✅ | ✅ | |
Collections Group similar items together in the same collection. | ✅ | ✅ | |
Tags Help your members find what they're looking for by adding fully customizable tags your content. | ✅ | ✅ | |
Powerful filtering options You and your members can easily find content by filtering by status, tags, collection, and cast members. | ✅ | ✅ | |
Content sorting You and your members can sort your content pages by publish date, name, and number of comments. | ✅ | ✅ | |
Search by keyword You and your members can also search your library by keyword. | ✅ | ✅ | |
ZIP file uploads for photosets Upload entire photosets with a single drag and drop using our ZIP uploader. | ✅ | ✅ | |
Relate photosets and videos with other content types including store items, bundles and recorded streams. | ✅ | ❓ | |
Safe backup of original quality videos We can securely store all of your original, high-resolution files photosets and videos which you can download at anytime. | ✅ | ✅ | |
Replace videos Easily replace videos without losing existing settings and statistics. | ✅ | ❓ | |
Video previewsAuto-generated video previews Video previews are automatically created when each video is uploaded. You can opt to show a custom uploaded previews if you prefer that over the auto-generated preview.
You can also download and save the auto-generated poster image and video preview. | ✅ | ✅ | |
ThumbnailsUpload a custom poster image, or use one that is automatically generated when you upload your content. | ✅ | ✅ | |
Let your members know who in each video, by assigning cast members. | ✅ | ✅ | |
Aside from the basic allow or disallow downloads, you can specify whether content can be downloaded for free with a membership or can be downloaded for a price. | ✅ | ✅ | |
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Make edits to your entire content library in just a few clicks. | ✅ | ❓ | |
Effortlessly arrange the content on your site with a simple drag of the mouse. | ✅ | ✅ | |
Pin stories, videos, photosets or store items to keep them at the top. | ✅ | ❌ | |
Member Cloud Storage Our Member Cloud Storage feature securely stores your members' unlocks, custom videos, and vault shares forever, ensuring they always have easy access and safekeeping. | ✅ | ❓ | |
VaultHouse and protect your most confidential content not intended for the library. Send Vault items as unlockable attachments via private one-on-one, or mass messages. | ✅ | ❌ | |
In addition to photo and video libraries, we allow creators to post stories, similar to Instagram stories. | ✅ | ❌ | |
My favorites Your members can mark certain videos as a favorite and save them to their "My favorites" page. | ✅ | ❓ | |
If you run more than one site under Multi-site Accounts, share a model between your sites without re-uploading. | ✅ | ❌ | ❌ |
🏪 Store
Elevate your digital marketplace with mymember.site's industry-leading store features. We offer a range of tools to automate the sale of physical, digital one-offs, or pay-per-minute items.
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Flexible pricing optionsMultiple prices | ✅ | ❓ |
Clip stores | ✅ | ✅ |
Custom videos | ✅ | ✅ |
Content bundles | ✅ | ❓ |
Order management system | ✅ | ❌ |
Use our custom form builder to collect additional information with each purchase. | ✅ | ❌ |
Availability automation | ✅ | ❌ |
Shipping zone management | ✅ | ❌ |
Sell PDF, ZIP and audio files with our downloadable files feature (different than video or photoset downloads). | ✅ | ❓ |
🔒 Subscriber management
Our subscriber management tools give you total control over your data and the subscriber experience.
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Full access to your customer data Real-time, comprehensive access to your custom data, including detailed membership information and complete transaction history. | ✅ | ✅ |
Specify access for each piece of content in your library. | ✅ | ✅ |
Canceled pay more | ✅ | ❌ |
Free or discounted trialsSelect from a range of trial options including free, or discounted with a period as low as 2 days. Trials are pre-authorized and will roll over into paid subscriptions.
Restrict number of trials Prevent members from joining again with a free or discounted trial within a certain number of days, or ever. | ✅ | ✅ |
Include a higher number of downloads in more expensive memberships. | ✅ | ❓ |
Offer paid access BEFORE the official publish date of your videos or photosets. | ✅ | ❌ |
Hide the 30-day membership to offer only longer plans and guide members toward longer commitments. | ✅ | ❌ |
Limit the streaming and download capacity for users during their free trial period. | ✅ | ❌ |
BlockingQuickly and easily control access to your site with our robust blocking features. Prevent VPN access, block specific regions or countries discreetly, and efficiently manage blocked members with our intuitive interface. Plus, ensure seamless browsing for yourself in blocked regions through our automatic whitelist feature.
Prevent access to your site via VPN.
Block U.S. States, Canadian provinces, or entire countries. People visiting from blocked regions will see a general technical error message (we don't want to give away the fact that they are blocked).
Block members quickly and easily by using the block feature. Blocked members appear in a searchable list and can be unblocked at any time.
IP blacklisting Easily add IP addresses that you want blocked to the IP blacklist.
IP whitelisting If you live in a blocked region, you'll need to still be able to view your site. That's where the whitelist comes in. Our system will automatically add your IP address to the whitelist so you don't block yourself automatically. | ✅ | ❓ |
Member tags allow you to segment (group) your members. | ✅ | ❓ |
Groups | ✅ | ❓ |
Member notes allow you to keep track of important information and events in the member lifecycle. | ✅ | ❓ |
Login with social media Members can create an account and log in with a single click. | ✅ | ❌ |
Replace member names with private nicknames to help you remember who you're engaging with. | ✅ | ❓ |
🔔 Notifications & activity tracking
mymember.site enhances user engagement with customizable event-based notifications, tailored mass and private messages, and auto-posts that can be triggered by specific events. Additionally, users benefit from an intuitive notifications feed featuring inline replies, and soon, we'll be introducing a global event feed for comprehensive tracking of member activity.
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Our Notifications Feed keeps you updated on site activities, allowing real-time engagement with the ability to like and reply instantly. | ✅ | ✅ |
Our activity feeds provide extremely detailed logs of EVERYTHING happening on your site, including all payment events, and member interactions. | ✅ | ❓ |
View additional details about payments including additional information to help with transaction troubleshooting. | ✅ | ❓ |
Teammate Accounts Add team members (e.g. | ✅ | ❌ |
📈 Statistics
Dive deep into your performance metrics with our comprehensive stats dashboard. Designed to offer a holistic view of your platform's success, mymember.site's dashboard showcases everything from revenue statistics, including top spenders, growth rates, and churn rates, to engagement metrics such as the most liked, commented, and viewed content, content commenters, and unlocks.
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Revenue statisticsFilter essential stats by content type for a comprehensive understanding of your business performance.
Top Spenders
Revenue Growth Rate
Revenue Churn Rate
Filter stats by content type | ✅ | ✅ |
Engagement statistics Our engagement stats, reveal your most liked, commented, and viewed content. | ✅ | ✅ |
Acquisition statistics Our acquisition stats allow you to keep tabs on unique visitors, traffic sources, locations, device types, bounce rates, account creations, joins, and conversion rates. | ✅ | ✅ |
We support custom tracking code integration, so you can easily connect with third-party tracking services. | ✅ | ✅ |
📣 Marketing
Boost your reach with mymember.site's fully embedded affiliate system, eliminating the need to pay for, and integrate with third-party systems like NATS. Additionally, supercharge your marketing efforts with our advanced promotion features: design targeted campaigns with custom thumbnails, set specific discounts, schedule in advance, and engage your audience with personalized private messages and auto posts (X and Blueksy). Experience true promotional versatility! 🚀
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Customize meta data including your social image to ensure your page ranks highly and looks great when your link is shared. | ✅ | ✅ |
PromotionsPublic or private promotions Create public promotions available to everyone, or private promotions using secret promo codes.
Discount just the first payment, or all recurring payments
Usage limits & restrictions Restrict usage to a certain number and type of users.
Save a draft, and schedule promotions for a future date
Customize announcement PMs and auto posts (X and Blueksy)
Usage statistics See who used the code and which transactions were discounted.
100% discounts Offer 100% discounts with your promotions for the first payment or on all payments. Credit card payments are pre-authorized.
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Fully integrated affiliate systemOur fully integrated affiliate system eliminates the need for expensive third-party platforms, keeping everything in one place. Track and manage your affiliate activities seamlessly, right from our platform, making it easier and more cost-effective to scale your partnerships.
No pricey third-party affiliate systems required
Fully integrated with your site and ready-to-go
Fully customizable terms
Detailed statistics
Detailed usage notifications
Beautiful and easy-to-use Dashboard for affiliates
Tube site ready | ✅ | ❌ |
💳 Payment processing
Members have access to a large number of member payment options, including major credit cards, debit cards, PayPal, crypto payments and Tantumpay. Take advantage of detailed transaction and payout reports, downloadable CSVs, one-click payments, and a versatile Wallet feature allowing members to keep balances for hassle-free transactions, tips, and more.
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Option to use your own payment processor Want to use your own processor? | ✅ | ❓ |
Many payment methods including most major credit & debit cards, crypto, PayPal and TantumPay! | ✅ | ❌ |
Multiple payment processors We connect to multiple payment processors to provide additional payment methods and options in case payments fail at CCBill. | ✅ | ❌ |
Payment method restrictions Restrict payment methods to remove higher-risk options, such as credit cards, for certain items. | ✅ | ❓ |
Transaction & payout reportsDetailed transaction reports Complete and detailed reports of ALL financial transactions happening on your site, including full webhook info. All exportable in CSV format.
Detailed payout summaries Full breakdown of your payouts by payout period - exportable in CSV format.
Downloadable transactions CSV Instantly download a detailed CSV of your entire transaction history. | ✅ | ❓ |
We securely store credit card info so purchases can be done with just a single click. | ✅ | ❓ |
Crypto payments | ✅ | ❌ |
WalletIn addition to purchasing your content directly via credit and debit cards, members can also pay using their wallet balance. Once members top up their wallet, they can use the available funds to make purchases across your site, including memberships and other content. Wallets are commonly used for quick and convenient payments, especially for smaller-priced items such as chat messages.
Allow subscribers to keep a wallet balance
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Members can easily send one-off payments in the form of a tip. | ✅ | ✅ |
🎨 Design
We are currently working on a brand-new site designer which will give creators near total control over the design of their site. We expect to have this released soon!
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Customizable header with video or images Set a custom header image or video loop. | ✅ | ✅ |
Logo & icon generator We provide an easy-to-use logo and icon auto generator for those who don't have a custom logo design. | ✅ | ❌ |
Color palettes Customize your site's color theme or choose from one of our presets. | ✅ | ✅ |
Your site installs as an app with customizable app icon Your site is installable as a real app on your member's phones. | ✅ | ❌ |
Customizable content cards Turn on/off the following content card options: Likes, New label, Share, Views, Timestamp, Tip, Total comment counts, and the Watched/Unwatched label | ✅ | ❌ |
Our platform offers the flexibility of creating custom pages tailored to your content needs. | ✅ | ✅ |
Preview your site as an active vs. expired member See how various permission changes look by previewing your site as a paid member or someone without a membership. | ✅ | ❌ |
📑 Compliance
With full age verification and 2257 document management features, mymember.site ensures meticulous adherence to 18 U.S.C. § 2257 and state age verification laws.
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2257 document management Full 2257 document management features, ensuring compliance with 18 U.S.C. | ✅ | ✅ |
Our advanced age verification features ensure you are fully compliant in all regions in the world where age verification is required. | ✅ | ❌ |
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