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How to Do a Proper Kegel

Learn the right technique to train your pelvic floor effectively and safely

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Learning how to correctly contract your pelvic floor muscles (Kegels) is the foundation of effective training with Perifit Care(+).

At first, it can feel a bit confusing. Many people aren’t sure what a “correct” contraction should feel like. This guide will help you understand, practice, and improve your technique step by step.

Why Technique Matters

For effectiveness

If you contract the wrong muscles, you won’t properly train your pelvic floor, which means less improvement in:

  • bladder control

  • pelvic support

  • sexual wellbeing

A correct contraction also helps keep the probe in place during training.

For safety

If you push downward instead of lifting, you create intra-abdominal pressure, which can:

  • strain your pelvic floor

  • worsen symptoms

  • increase the risk of prolapse over time

How to Contract Correctly

To contract your pelvic floor muscles, try to imagine one of the following sensations:

  • Squeezing as if you’re trying to stop the flow of urine

  • Squeezing as if you’re trying to block a wind

  • Gently lifting upward inside your body

  • Tightening your vagina around a tampon

  • Lifting something small (like a grape) inside your vagina

The key idea: it’s a lift, not a push

At the same time, keep everything else relaxed, especially your abs, glutes, and thighs.
You can place a hand on your stomach to check that it stays relaxed.

Just avoid practicing during urination, as this can increase the risk of urinary tract infections.

It may feel difficult at first and that’s completely normal.
Like learning any new skill, coordination improves with practice.

Don’t Forget to Relax

A proper Kegel is not just about squeezing. Relaxation is just as important.

After each contraction, fully release and let your pelvic floor relax.

Why this matters:

  • Muscles need rest to perform well

  • Relaxation helps prevent tension and discomfort

  • A healthy pelvic floor is both strong and flexible, not tight

⚠️ Avoid pushing downward to relax — simply let go of the contraction.

Using Your Breath

Your pelvic floor naturally moves with your breath:

  • Inhale → pelvic floor relaxes and lowers

  • Exhale → pelvic floor lifts

You can use this rhythm to guide your training:

  • contract on the exhale

  • relax on the inhale

A Simple Step-by-Step Kegel

  1. Take a moment to fully relax your body

  2. Exhale and gently lift your pelvic floor (like holding gas)

  3. Inhale and fully relax

  4. Exhale again, lifting and slightly bringing the sensation forward (like stopping urine)

  5. Inhale and relax completely

👉 That’s a proper Kegel

Real-Life vs Training

During exercises, you control when to contract and relax.

But in real life (coughing, sneezing, laughing), contractions need to happen quickly and automatically, regardless of your breathing.

That’s exactly what Perifit Care games help you train: responding at the right time, even when it’s unexpected.

Final Tip

Don’t worry if it doesn’t feel natural right away. This is very common.

Focus on:

  • gentle, controlled contractions

  • keeping other muscles relaxed

  • building coordination over time

With practice, it becomes much easier and more intuitive 👍

If you need further help, check out the "Learn the Perfect Kegel" section of the Exercises tab. These tools were designed to help you get a better understanding of what a good Kegel should feel like, and refine your technique

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